I attended the Bootcamp as both an attendee and a trainer and I enjoyed them both equally. In the mornings I was a trainer for the couples and I learned a really good lesson and it was to give God time to work the couples through the process before intervening. It was so refreshing to see both spouses willing to work through the rough places and leave free from some of the baggage they arrived with. They departed FREE!!! Another thing I took away was, things I learned about myself I didn’t realize I was communicating in my former marriage and being able to be open to discover those things and ask my ex-husband to forgive me for the areas where I was weak and unsuccessful at making the marriage work.
In the evenings I participated as an attendee and it was awesome because I discovered how committed I am to my purpose of helping my children and others, to be successful in relationships and life. I discovered that I was competitive in relationships with the opposite sex and why. Growing up men dominated women in my circle of influence and I made a vow that I wouldn’t let it happen to me, so instead of forgiving them and allowing God to heal my heart and protect me…I protected myself and never really let my former husband to be as intimate with me as I should have.
Thank You Dana H. and the rest of the team for such a life changing experience!!!
Lolita Harris from Little Elm, Tx